had a clash of blues today when we turned up for the cmg bbq, everyone, yes EVERYONE thought i looked like someone else. Namely, 2 people, separate in nature, behavior and *erhem* height (sorry L)... i've had this happen to me all the time, and when you think, being in a foreign country with all their caucasian babes and hunks, theres no possibility of being vaguely linked physically to anyone....you're HELL wrong...

recalling back, i had people come up to me telling me how i resemble their cousins, sisters, friends....and yes, BROTHER. someone had the gall to even suggest that. i'm still surprised that i hadnt involuntarily punched her face out. firstly, come on, we all have the same features, 2 ears one nose and one mouth. HOW can we not look alike. not to mean it as an insult, i have realized on many occassions that i've been unable to remember my next-door-partner's name when i'm at tutorials or lectures, especially when in comparison to someone else, who has the same dirty blonde and blue eyes and build and height and etc.... but of course after the umpteen times of humming and hawings..."er...C....(she shakes head), Re....(slight smille), REGi(slight frown)..." i have finally succeeded in remembering them. Unfortunately, it was one of those, end of semesters hi-byes.... quite sad but true.


Secondly, looks can be decieving...even if i looked the same as someone else do...it doesnt mean that we behave the same....gentle, smiling, sociable= which i'm definitely not. more of a tomboy-hardknock person... but, surely, the reason why guys are more attracted to "gentler" girls, is due to one fact. NO guy wants to fall in love with another guy. (not inreference to guy-girls), just that no real guy wants a masculine girl who can challenge them physically, mentally et al.


was bandering over the topic of bimbotic girls. Drew many conclusions. some are naturally "blonde" (not as in real blondes but as in the figurative idea of the "dumb blonde- think marilyn monroe, even though i personally think she acts that way for money and affection), having nothing but alittle air and lots of cottonfloss up there, others are just Acting.

Acting known also as a part of life, where everyone has to learn to be someone else once in awhile to make themselves settle into daily life's mundanity... have women who are as well-educated and career oriented, act like bimbos. Maybe its called compensation for to goad the inferiorities of "man"kind, man who were the equivalents of the universe and beyond, women who were subjugated within the walls of the 2-by-4 kitchen of her mind.... all seem to spiral into a never ending process of unity known as MARRIAGE. when your dating, you either look to be with someone for a long time, or a fling. MARRIAGE is the long term goal, and women act bimbotic to fish themselves a man. maybe not all women, just some. pretending to be more dumb then they actually are to win over blind trust (shown in the form of a diamond wedding ring), devotion (her husband's salary to be rationed out to him bit by bit OR household allowances)...

yes. women are a bimbotic lot, bimbotic in their own ways. but sometimes, they have something up their sleeves. a little unexpected something.